in my personal experiences you pussy foot around the issues and take the soft way around shit the azz wipes will get bolder and in return screw over more people now take the hard nosed azzhole tactic way and things get done and truth comes out. you think law enforcement takes the sugar coated way nope and even there ways at times border on that grey area but they get responces and thats that we are hear for right. if people cant take and sort out what is useful and what isnt then thats there problem. look at my post on my car on here there was all sorts of advise and opinion took what was useful got upset at some ( my problem not posters) and thats that