Scam.
Two flags:
1) new member,
2) posted email to bypass RJ email system to establish contact.
Also peculiar word choice is ususally a sign.
Email the seller and let her know that you have a relative local to her to come and see it and that you want to set a time.
Bet is that its in another state or at some location where it can't be viewed. And if she says you can see it - then pay to send an inspector out.
And welcome aboard.
Scorp