OK forget about the yellowbullet crap .
It would seem to me, if you were REALLY out the 3200 bucks or whatever it was...you would get the bank/CC statements and show him so you could get your cash back. You say you have posted proof...you posted the email,but not the CC statement. If you wanted the money you would post the statement. His side of it is you planned on doing a charge back after you got the boxes in order to scam him...well you are making it appear that he caught you in a scam and you are just retaliating.Not saying you are...but that's what it looks like. Just get him the proof he asks for,even if you don't think you should have to, and then get your money back. You can still "destroy his business" after you get your money. Why shoot yourself in the foot by being stuborn and screw yourself out of the money?