Bobr, I don't keep up with all the scammer threads (I assume that's where you had your issue with the guys), but I don't remember anything about you. None of your post have said anything about me nor have any of mine about you. I just know what I've read in the last week or so.
With that being said I have no opinion good or bad. (not that my approval / disapproval makes any difference ...)
I don't think you're here to argue, but once it started it snowballed.
I can assure you that you will learn to trust the guys and they will return the respect / trust to you.
It may be hard to believe it now, but this is one of the best forums you'll find and some true friends no matter if you get to met them in person or just on here.